I CAN’T HELP THINKING ABOUT IT
There will be things that you wish that you had or hadn’t done, but think about it. Is there any point in wallowing in something that you can’t change? It’s in the past, and you’re not going to be able to go back in time and change it. Instead of thinking about the things that you should’ve of done, think about the things that you will do.
When I feel myself falling back, and starting to think about that thing that I did, I just remind myself that it doesn’t matter. If it did matter, then I’d probably be dead right now. It couldn’t have been that serious. Even if what you did ended up getting someone killed, it’s in the past. You can’t do anything to change it, so why are you still thinking about it?
Instead of dwelling, LEARN. Learn from your mistakes and know not to do, whatever you did again.
HOW TO PREVENT GETTING INTO A SITUATION WHERE I START REGRETTING
If you don’t want to regret saying something, try and think before you speak. Process what you’re about to say before saying it, and don’t just blurt it out without putting any thought into it. That can save you offending someone, or embarrassing yourself.
If you don’t want to regret not taking an opportunity, then just do what you want to do. Join the club that you want to do, instead of thinking about what other people may say. You’ll make friends when you join. If your heart is telling you to audition, or take part in something, then just do it. The only bad thing that could come out of trying, is that it doesn’t turn out to be what you thought it was - and that’s okay. At least you tried. You won’t be left wondering: “What if?”
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