ATTRACTIVENESS IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER

I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about "beauty," and being "attractive," and I've come to the conclusion, that beauty isn't in the eye of the beholder.

Beauty - Everybody is beautiful. This is because beauty isn't just to do with physical appearance. Beauty is your personality, the way you look, the way you act around people, your passion and everything about you all together to make you. That is what makes you beautiful. You being you. However, even though everyone is beautiful, not everybody finds your beauty attractive.

There is the difference. Everybody has beauty, but not everyone is attracted to that beauty. However, even though that is the case, that one conventionally attractive person not finding YOU attractive doesn't immediately make you unattractive. One person's negative opinion of you doesn't decide who you are.

Now, I personally believe that everybody is beautiful. Everybody is beautiful on the outside and on the inside. Someone in this world will think you're beautiful, and you just being you makes you beautiful too. However, even though I think everyone is beautiful, I don't find everyone attractive.

I personally think that the saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder," is slightly misleading. This is because YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. EVERYONE, is beautiful. Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, not beauty. Nobody other than you can decide whether you're beautiful or not, and it is up to understand that even though not everyone will find you attractive, that fact doesn't change the fact that you are.

So to put this simply: Everybody is beautiful. However, everybody won't find your beauty attractive to them. However, others not finding your beauty attractive to them, doesn't make it unattractive to all. It is up to you to decide whether you're going to accept that though.

FOR YOU
What do you think about this? Do you think the word beauty and attractive can be interchangeably? Or are they completely different?